not only is “show me love” by Robin S a killer dance party hit, it’s also my new personal dating anthem. which means i seek a man who is both physically and emotionally present. available men don’t have wives, fiancés, girlfriends, nor do they have an obsessive relationship with their work (or their fitness routines, political views, exes or mothers). they don’t live far, far away nor do they spend most of their time jetting off to some distant place. the kind of fella i’m looking for wants to be in a committed relationship in the here and now … and he doesn’t require that a woman browbeat him into it. he adores me, and he lets me know it. sing it, robin s!